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End-of-Year Unbinding: Cutting Cords, Breaking Cycles & Clearing the Path for 2026

  • Writer: Scarly
    Scarly
  • 13 minutes ago
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As the final weeks of the year arrive, the air becomes charged with a unique blend of endings and beginnings. December is a liminal month, a spiritual crossroads where we’re guided to release, unbind, and clear anything that cannot or should not come with us into the new year. In brujería and many folk traditions, this time is sacred. It’s when cords are cut, cycles are broken, and the path for the coming year is swept clean with intention.


2026 holds its own energy, momentum, and opportunities. But before stepping into that fresh landscape, the old must be removed. Not destroyed. simply released. This process of unbinding is about reclaiming energy, authority, and direction.


Let’s explore how to end the year with clarity, protection, and empowerment.


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Why Unbinding Work Belongs in December


December sits at the edge of two spiritual thresholds:


the end of the calendar year


the beginning of a new cycle of destiny


In Mexican folk practices, this is the time to sweep the home, cleanse the spirit, and settle unfinished business. In broader witchcraft and brujería, unbinding in winter aligns with the natural energy of release, plants have died back, days are shortest, and the world contracts inward.


Energetically, December encourages:


closing karmic loops


ending unhealthy patterns


removing spiritual stagnation


releasing toxic relationships


cutting cords from past lovers, abusers, friends, or situations


breaking hexes, bindings, and emotional ties


reclaiming energy drained throughout the year


It is a month of endings with purpose, not endings with pain.



How to Know It’s Time to Unbind


Look for signs like:


repeating emotional patterns


exhaustion after interactions with certain people


feeling “pulled” backward instead of forward


intuitive heaviness


dreams of the past


sudden clarity about relationships or habits


déjà vu tied to old wounds


These signals often intensify in December because your spirit is telling you:

“This cannot come with you into 2026.”



End-of-Year Cord Cutting


Cords form through:


intimate connection


trauma bonding


emotional dependence


long-term friendships


spiritual contracts


blood ties


unresolved endings


A cord cutting isn’t punishment it’s permission. It lets your spirit step into neutrality, peace, and sovereignty.



Cord-Cutting Method (Brujería-Inspired)


You'll need:


A white candle


A black candle


Red thread (to represent the cord)


Rue or rosemary


A bowl of water


Copal incense


Fire-safe dish


Steps:


Stand or sit in front of your candles.


Burn copal to cleanse your aura and space.


Tie the red thread into a circle and hold it between your hands.


Visualize the person, habit, or situation. Don’t judge, just witness.


Place the circle of thread between the two candles.


Light both candles and say:


“Lo suelto. Me libero.

This connection is complete.”


Burn the red thread in the fire-safe dish.


Dip your fingers in the bowl of water and touch your forehead.

This seals the release.


Dispose of ashes at a crossroads or bury them in soil.



Breaking Cycles Before the New Year


Cutting cords removes a connection.


Breaking cycles removes a pattern.


Cycles show up through:


choosing similar partners


repeating unhealthy behaviors


self-sabotage


poverty mindset


returning to toxic environments


generational wounds playing out again and again


Breaking a cycle requires interrupting the energy that feeds it.



Cycle-Breaking Exercise


Write down three patterns that harmed you this year.

For each one, write:


What feeds it


What it costs you


What your life looks like without it


Then burn the paper safely and bury the ashes with tobacco or cornmeal to close the cycle.



Unbinding Work: Releasing Energetic Knots


Unbinding is deeper and more spiritual than simple cord-cutting.

It dissolves:


spiritual constraints


bindings placed by others


self-binding due to guilt or fear


spiritual contracts that expired long ago


emotional knots from trauma



End-of-Year Unbinding Ritual


You’ll need:


A small length of natural twine


Rue (ruda), basil, or rosemary


A white bowl


Warm salted water


A small bell


A white candle


Steps:


Tie knots in the twine, each representing something you’re bound to.


Light the candle and ring the bell once.


Hold the twine and say:


“Con cada nudo, libero lo que no es mío.

Me desato. Me libero. Soy dueña de mi camino.”


Place the twine into the bowl of warm salted water.


Watch as it loosens, unravels, or softens — this is the unbinding.


Dispose of the twine at the base of a tree.



Cleansing the Path for 2026


Here is how to spiritually “reset the path” for the coming year:


1. Limpia del Año Viejo


A cleansing with:


rosemary


basil


a splash of vinegar


a pinch of salt


Use it from head to foot or pour it over the shoulders in a shower.


2. Sweep the Floors (Es Muy Tradicional)


Always sweep outwards, toward the doors.

Throw the dust away from the home.


3. Light a Road-Opening Candle


A yellow or white candle dressed with:


cinnamon


orange peel


basil


a drop of your own perfume


Ask the spirits of 2026 to open your caminos.


4. Write Your 2025 Goodbyes


List:


What ended


What healed


What needs to stay in the past


Then burn it or bury it.



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The Spiritual Meaning of Entering 2026 Unbound


When cords are cut, cycles are broken, and old energies are released, the coming year arrives clean, like fresh earth ready to be planted. Entering 2026 with clarity means:


clearer intuition


stronger manifesting


healthier relationships


protection from repeating wounds


new opportunities


spiritual sovereignty


Unbinding opens the path so your destiny is not shaped by the past, but by your will.


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