Manifestation is a hot topic on TikTok and social media right now, but how do you sort through the millions of videos and articles to find what's right for you? Don't worry, I've got you. I've been manifesting amazing things all my life and I have truly honed my skills the last three years. I've gone through all types of different ways of manifesting and weeded out what didn't work in a busy life. Here we go!
A: Watch Your Mouth
The first thing you have to do is to stop speaking negative shit into the universe. Period. Sounds easy, but it's a HARD thing to do if you've been in a negative mindset your whole life. Most people are taught to say "I can't", "I never", "I won't", etc, before they speak in a positive way. When this is what you're taught, what your family has used, what you have always used, then changing your wording takes a massive effort on your part. You have to be conscious about what you say every time it comes out of your mouth. You have to train your brain to pause before you speak, before you respond, etc. You have to realize that the universe IS listening. If you speak only negatively, guess what will happen - negative things. You're telling the universe that you never win, that you can't get ahead, that nothing good ever happens to you. So - hey, self-fulfilling prophecy... negative shit happens repeatedly.
When you decide to change what you say and speak positively, it also means that you will slow down what you say. You'll think and put more effort into the words that leave your face. It will take a conscious effort on your part to do this, however, you'll see the results pretty quickly.
It will also bring about the second step without you doing much at all!
B: Thinking Is Being
One of my favorite quotes is from Buddha: "What you think, you become." Your mindset is what governs how you are, what you are, and who you are. If you begin to speak positively about your situation and yourself, your mindset will change along with it.
Yes, you've heard people talk about this forever... and chances are that you made fun of it at one point or another. I did too. However, once I started changing my whole mindset into something positive - my whole life began to shift, to change, and to become something amazing.
It is the hardest part of manifesting, I kid you not. It can be especially hard for those who grew up with negative parents or in a negative house. You have to start small, and make your brain be positive. It will take a couple of weeks, but then you'll do it automatically. Even when you are just starting to change your mindset, you'll see the changes almost immediately around you.
C: You Can't Sit On Your Ass
You just can't. You have to do the work. The universe helps those who are self-starters. If you're wanting a raise, you can't sit back and not work. If you want a new home, you can't hide in your current one. If you want someone in your life, you have to put yourself out there. You cannot just sit back and expect the universe to plop everything in your lap while you hide. It doesn't work that way, y'all.
Overall - manifestation is truly easy once you learn how and once you change your mindset. I promise. If you're wanting to learn more about manifestation, check out my TikTok, YouTube, and my Events page to see when I'm hosting my next manifestation workshop.